Taking Control of Time After Losing Your Job
Thursday, 4. February 2010 12:12
Many clients I work with wonder why it is they are so busy after losing their jobs. They say, “I don’t know how I had time for my job before!”
Aristotle is reputed to be the first to observe that “Nature abhors a vacuum.” In this case meaning, if you suddenly have 40-80 hours per week of free time, you will hear this whooshing sounds as others instantly fill them. And, there is often no rhyme or reason to how they are filled.
Families, friends and organizations all find it irresistible to help you use your new-found time. Perhaps no single request takes much time, but together they can be immensely time consuming. Even a 10-minute errand can cause you to lose focus for an hour or more.
So, you need to stake claim to your own time, right away. Let all these constituents know there is a lot to do in a job search and that is your absolute priority. Ask them not to make assumptions about your availability, or place demands on your time they wouldn’t have when you were employed.
The next big issue is you and your calendar. Suddenly your calendar is empty where it was always full before. Don’t let it stay that way. Fill it in! If you don’t have appointments, so what? You have plenty of work to do. Think about what those things are; when they should be done and in what order. Then fill in those projects and tasks on you calendar just like you do with meetings. Think of them as meetings with yourself, if that helps.
Filling in your calendar helps you in three ways. First, it forces you to think about your time and priorities–i.e. do some planning.
Second, it forces you to see what you will be giving up to meet a request for your time from family, friend or organization. Now, just like when you were employed, when someone asks for your time you will say, “Let me check my calendar and see what commitments I have.” You then have to reason through the consequences of any changes you make, or new commitments you take on.
And third, it provides a certain inertia to keep you moving ahead and on task as each day unfolds. The calendar is there, urging you to complete something on time and move on to the next priority.
Most people either haven’t done a job search before, or haven’t done it well, so don’t forget to communicate with family and others about what you are spending your time on, why you are doing it, and what progress you are making. Support increases in proportion to understanding.
Take control of your time NOW and you will progress much faster to your re-employment goal.
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